As I grew into both I thought they were separate. I was cuckolded then embraced my feminine side. A sissy. Yet I am starting to feel for me they are the same.
Looking back on my life and my sexuality I was a Sissy before I was a cuckold.
It doesn’t take a loving wife to be a sissy. Just a love for beautiful women’s clothing, a desire to try those clothes on and feel them. A love of the female power, and a sexually submissive side.
The love of my life, my ultimate fantasy woman agreeing to cuckold me only fed that submissive side, brought out truths about my feminine desires and crossdressing and what I enjoy sexually allowing finally a positive feeling about my sexual self.
I found this article online about what a sissy is and I can’t say I can write it much better. It is not exact to my own thoughts but pretty close. The sissy and the cuckold.
“Sissies are a distinct breed of crossdressers. A sissy is a crossdresser who’s primary sexual interest lies not just in wearing feminine clothing, but in becoming an exaggerated version of femininity. Femininity as seen through the lens of traditional hetero male sexual desire. Sissies are not seeking to become women in a normal sense, but are instead seeking to become the object of their desires. Their ultimate fantasy woman if they were normal, rather than being a sissy.
Sissies are crossdresses who can’t be sated by just throwing on some panties and jerking off. They must strive to become their ideal female. This means the fetish will transcend the bedroom, and creep into the rest of their life. A full wardrobe, makeup, wigs, etc. Sissies will spend more time looking at women’s outfits than they will looking at the women wearing them. Sissies keep their body hair shaved, likely wear panties (or more!) at all times, nail polish on their toes, etc. Being a sissy takes commitment and dedication.
Sissies are bisexual, but not in the traditional sense. You aren’t going to see a sissy settle down and marry a man. You won’t find many that will say they find men attractive. Remember, a sissy seeks to become the embodiment of what their dream woman would be. As such, their interest in pleasing men is distinct from that of homosexual men. Their interest in men comes from seeking validation that they have achieved their sissy goal: being feminine enough to interest “straight” men. They aren’t into the men themselves as much as the men are sex objects that a sissy uses to confirm her own sissyness and submissive.
Sissies are submissive. You can be a crossdresser who makes an effort to look the part and not be submissive, but that means you are not a sissy. A sissy gets off on pleasing others. She doesn’t worry about herself or her pleasure nearly as much. This is where you see chastity and cuckolding come into play for a lot of sissies. Chastity is sought because it allows a sissy to stay horny, giving them the drive to further their sissy desires (rather than losing them after orgasm). Cuckolding is natural because if a sissy is going to have a wife or girlfriend (remember, sissies aren’t typically into men romantically), by her nature a sissy is unlikely going to be able to be much of a man when it comes to sex. As such, not only is the woman more likely to look elsewhere for those needs, the sissy herself shouldn’t mind. Her wife isn’t cheating on the sissy with “another man”, but is having sex with “a man”. The sissy isn’t a man anymore, so why should she be jealous that her wife needs a man from time to time? If anything, the sissy can relate. She needs a man sometimes too!
Sadly, the term sissy tends to be overused these days. Guys with thick body hair showing off their one pair of panties, or ones where their small wardrobe is a mishmash of mismatched clothes that no woman would ever wear, these sorts are all using the term sissy. Guess what guys? You aren’t a sissy. You may have the mindset, you may be working towards it, but until you get there, you aren’t one. You need to learn fashion, makeup, and you need to work towards looking hot. Instead of doing just enough sissy stuff to get your cock hard, you need to focus on doing enough to get someone else’s cock hard. In a world of pantyboys, you need to rise above. You need to embrace what it means to truly be a sissy and dedicate yourself to it.”
Pretty well written. Not so sure about the end rant.
I don’t only mind my wife cuckolding me, it is a huge turn on to me, even as a man and my alter female ego. I love the pleasure she receives with other men and the emotional, mental and physical pleasures I derive from it. I love fantasizing about my wife sexually with these more alpha men as well as taking the more submissive role in the relationship if that makes sense?
I also love to read about sluts. I guess I also like to hear about slutty things and lean more towards sexy fashion that attracts positive sexual attention both from males and females.
Recently I read an erotic story about a female that decides to become a slut. It was a story so far out there sexually, absolute fantasy, not reality. An unexpected fun read for me. The moral of the story is pretty good though because the main character is spreading happiness to everyone around her by dressing in revealing clothing and fucking everyone! Bringing the same sluttyness out to everyone she touches.
“I kissed him on the lips. Not a passionate kiss. A delicate one. I told him that I was a slut. He protested. I told him that I loved sex. The naughtier the better. I told him I would let other men have me.”
He said he thought is was hot.
I said “this is what sluts do. They give blow jobs to boys just because they want to.”
“Sluts have a lot of power.”
My dream woman.
Yes my love who is reading this you are such a slut ;)! LOL